Could this be the reason marriages are failing?

 Marriage is one institution every person looks forward to entering at certain stages in their live. Everyone has a good plan for their lives in marriage; they want it to be forever. But this is very difficult to achieve these days.



In my opinion, marriages fail these days because people see it more as an end than a beginning.

They believe dating life is over, whereas it's just begun.

They think winning/keeping your man/woman is over, whereas it's just begun.

They think hanging out and having classic dinners are over, whereas it just began.

They think learning about their partner has ended, whereas it just entered a higher gear.

Every good things they used to do, and they know the other used to like, during dating (or courting) abruptly stops, when it should continue with even more intensity and frequency.

What am I saying?

Before you marry, date.

After wedding, continue dating.

Children are not in the picture yet, still date.

Children start coming, keep dating.

In abundance, date.

In lack, date.

Date. Date. Date...

Keep dating each other until your last breath.

Don't stop doing the good things you were doing before you said "I do".

If there must be a change, let it be a little more on everything you used to do.

Sense?


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